An email received a few hrs ago;
Dear Yumites,
Problems with my boyfriend over me playing mas in such a small costume. He goes to Vegas, and New Orleans, 4-6 times a year and I don't make a fuss. God only knows just what happens when he goes., and I've heard many, many things over these years.
But, I save up my hard earned cash all year just to play mas and be a VIP for 2 weeks and he throws a sissy fit every single year. I am actually considering ending it all simply because I cannot deal with any of this anymore. My question is, "should I end it now and or wait to call his ass from Trinidad and do it via a BB Video of me wining dong dong dong and up and up with some gorgeous man?"
I have turned to impartial strangers because girlfriends and family seem to have shit invested in this one sided sicklationship. What do you think?
A.Will post the response as soon as I stop laughing and return in the morning :). WOW, why do some of you women put up with all this? You've heard things over the years and naturally you have not been able to gain concrete proof of his "alleged" infidelities. Hmmm, he must have an invisible cloak to be able to cloak all of his indiscretions for so long a time.
If someone tolerates that sort of disgusting behaviour continually "over the YEARS" and still cannot stamp out that relationship completely then you must have something akin to an addiction to the douche.
ReplyDeleteIs he buying your friends and family gifts? Paying bills? Taking them on vacation? Even so your family have no business being that deep into your relationship or your choices! You know inherently that this man is not faithful, you know he is using you for some dark purpose, you know he doesn't give a shit BUT you also know you'll be damn well fine without him. If you decide to leave him do it now and courteously as kindly as possible and keep your emotions in check.
That is all.
Kore, this is great advice! I could not of said this better myself!! I think some women just put up with BS or no apparent reason other than they just want to have a man!
ReplyDeletedo it now hun the sooner the better. regardless of how much of a douche hes being no one deserves to find out that their woman doh want them no more by seeing it on tv lol
ReplyDeleteMy dear do not sink to his level, tell him and tell him now. If you stay with this relationship then I fear you yourself are a loss cause.
ReplyDeletethe good news is that you are ready to move on.
ReplyDeletethe bad news is that you are discussing your relationship on a carnival website.
it's time to let him go hun,preferably before carnival.can't have that stress messing with your yumavibe.