Damn boots!!!

As a slim woman I encounter my share of dismay when I shop. I am smack dab between a 4 and a 4.5, s-m, Some things I will have to sacrifice. If a pair of pants fits perfectly in the waist and hips, I suffer on length, shirt sleeves etc are very short, or the length will be perfect but waist and hips are too large etc. and blah blah.
For instance today, I was looking for a pair of black boots, found a super pair and lo and behold when I zipped it up, "my calves are swimming!". Of course some might say, "gain some weight" etc, but. Seeing as even if I were to gain weight, just how much weight will I have to gain in order for my calves to fill out the boots just for a great fit? Ugh....
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